But I want change now. Can you help me? |
Who doesn't? And there are plenty of people who will promise you that. The truth is change is a long, complex process that requires commitment and intention. Most people are content to say they want change, make a few weak attempts and then complain that nothing is different. If you really want change - whether it's a better environment for your business, healthier relationships or more peace than chaos - I can show you how to get it. You have to be willing to do the work. And give yourself credit for small steps and changes while remaining patient.
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How long does this process take? |
Your entire life. The issue with so many "self-help" or "personal development" experts is that they claim to have an answer. What I've discovered is that if you're going to search for anything, you're better off searching for the next step, as there is rarely an "answer." When you can accept that the life journey is a series of steps, it has a calming affect. The stakes are reduced and you're better able to identify how to proceed instead of vacillating between the choices you've given yourself as the "answer."
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What exactly do you mean by "ego"? |
ego is the collection of perceptions, thoughts and beliefs that have nothing to do with who you really are. They begin accumulating before you can even speak and are absorbed into your being to form your identity. The problem is that without awareness, you can't offer yourself the opportunity to change any of them. The Out Your ego! concept enables you to become aware of how ego drives you and affords the ability to empower yourself by making different choices.
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